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Active Receiving
This session is ideal to help people ask for what they want, in and out of the bedroom. Too often it is assumed that others know what we want. That puts a lot of reponsibility on a partner. Often clients have been so focussed on pleasuring a partner, they have neglected their own exploration of pleasure. Culture, tabboos, shame have limited self exploration. This is a safe, consensual space to learn about what the body likes, and doesn't like.. and how to ask for it, clearly, consisely and specifically without shame or judgement.
Learn language around asking for what you want. Learn which feelings arise and how to deal with own feelings that arisewhen asking for pleasure. Learn and practise in a safe space, use differing tactics and responses torequesting pleasure. We are often not very graceful when changing behaviours and habits - It’s OK to beclunky here, This is where you can practice until it becomes more comfortable.
As always, all sessions are client directed, Co-created, operate outside of attraction and adhere to the ACSB & SSEAA codes of ethics.
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Vaginal/Vulva/Yoni Mapping
Often a client will present saying something like this“I have a pain ‘down there’’ “Down there” is a space known for its lack of proprioception, it’s a virtual hole, it doesn’t have a name that is easily spoken and there is no spatial awareness within this ‘hole’ that is often numb or painful or completely non existent. Somewhere along the line the brain has forgotten its existence, disassociated or severed connections entirely. Abuse, shame, guilt & disconnect around this anatomy is common. It is heartbreaking to think that a space that births new life can be viewed with such disdain. Instead, this is perhaps the first step in coming into awareness and beauty of whole self. Vaginal mapping can be done alongside scar remediation or done separately but most people have scarring that is hampering sensation, how would you know without a map? Mapping helps you get to know your own vulva, vagina anatomy. Many people are unsure of their own anatomy, much less be able to articulate what each area feels like or to give directions to each place. Mapping shows you the landscape, directions around territory and language to communicate with. As always, all sessions are client directed, Co-created, operate outside of attraction and adhere to the ACSB & SSEAA codes of ethics. Book now
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Scar Remediation
80% of women have scarring due to childbirth. Regularly we hear of pelvic pain that has been going on formany, many years without resolution. Scars create an interruption in vascular delivery and therefore aninterruption in nerve response and nerve time, this can present as numbness, altered sensation, pain,tingly, pointy, scratchy feelings the medical world has no answers for. Frequently we see women pain freeafter just a few sessions.It is not just the pelvic scarring from childbirth, we also see people with genital scarring through genitalmutilation or circumcision. We see people who have had enough of operations, people who have penisesthat are a mass of scar tissue. We see people who suffer genital pain all day every day with no resolutionfrom the medical arena.
And it's not only women!! Scarring blocks blood flow so imagine what circumcision may do to erections over time & space ... As always, all sessions are client directed, co-created, operate outside of attraction and adhere to the ACSB & SSEAA codes of ethics. Book now
And it's not only women!! Scarring blocks blood flow so imagine what circumcision may do to erections over time & space ... As always, all sessions are client directed, co-created, operate outside of attraction and adhere to the ACSB & SSEAA codes of ethics. Book now
Boundaries & Consent
Often people are unsure of their own personal boundaries, where do they end and the other person,partner, place begins. This becomes especially significant when it comes to the body based boundaries.Often we find clients have been allowing unwanted or uncomfortable touch and not knowing how to changeit, this is especially tricky if it is a long term partner or someone easily offended or who takes thingspersonally. How often do we put another’s feelings before our own discomfort - put up and shut up. Thissession is designed to help you firstly identify your body boundaries and also find new language arounddiscussing positive changes with others.
As always, all sessions are client directed, Co-created, operate outside of attraction and adhere to the ACSB & SSEAA codes of ethics.
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Erotic Language
Often with couples we hear bedroom stories something like this …“Oh that feels really good”,“What this?”“No, where you were a second ago, yes there but harder”“Like that?”“Yeah sort of”……. “Like that?”“Ummmm, it’s gone now”
Often we expect others to satisfy our desires when we don’t even know what they are ourselves. What feels good? What feels Ok, and what feels awful? What would you like more of? What woud make it even better? Do you know your ownbody?
Find different arousal places, erogenous zones and find language to easily and readily and effectively communicate this to a partner. We will show you how to develop a personal language that exactly guides yourself and a partner to the exact x marks the spot. We cannot tell another until we first know yourselves.
As always, all sessions are client directed, Co-created, operate outside of attraction and adhere to the ACSB & SSEAA codes of ethics.
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Ejaculation Control
Sexological Bodyworkers don’t often use the term erectile dysfunction, as we don’t believe it is a‘dysfunction’ other than a term created by big businesses. We prefer to call it "ejaculation choice'. Whether it is 5 minutes, 5 seconds, 5 hours or even days! We'll work with you until you have the ultimate control of your body functions. Often issues here are learned behaviours than can be unlearned. Sometimes it is just about regulating the nervous system, creating and utilising new neural pathways. Many things can be contributing to this issue, including shame, guilt, anxiety, lack of time, prostate, space, physical issues, scars and the list goes on - we will work with you to gently guide you through this rocky terrain and to the other side with a toolbox full of new tools to utilise. We are always available to work alongside any healthcare professional regarding medical issues. As always, all sessions are client directed, Co-created, operate outside of attraction and adhere to the ACSB & SSEAA codes of ethics. Book now
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Witnessing
Sexuality and sexual anatomy are often the subject of huge guilt and shame. Usually we are unaware of a shame episode in our life, these episodes could be created in an everyday environment, I could simply be a telephone ringing whilst we were in a pleasure state. These shame episodes can show up as PE, ED,pleasure blocking, addictive behaviours, repetitive behaviours etc. Witnessing with compassion, in a neutral space, without judgment, or critique changes the way we respond. Done in a non judgmental, safe space with a trained Certified Bodyworker will change the neural pathways, creating new happier, morecompassionate pathways that allow and encourage pleasure rather than block pleasure or create further shame episodes.
As always, all sessions are client directed, Co-created, operate outside of attraction and adhere to the ACSB & SSEAA codes of ethics.
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Connecting with a partner
This session is for someone who feels they have disconnected or detached from self, a loved one, partner - We can show you ways of becoming present and accepting of self along with ways to align and connect with a partner. This in no ways needs to be sexual, however, everything we teach can be translated intosexual connection. We have all heard of “Tantra” , some people think of this now as a spiritual communion or some think of it as a sexy massage rather than a way of life -this is NOT a tantra session and will not incorporate and spiritual teachings or learnings and will not include a sexy massage - but it will teach you how to be connected heart to heart. We will teach techniques to regulate your nervous systems so they feel safe enough to connect to each other. Once this is establlished, we'll expand on that discovering boundaries, erogonous zones. Whats a no and what is a yes, or a maybe, I'm curious to explore safely.
Nervous systems connect to other nervous systems in close proximity, we know this scientifically. We'll show you practices for you both to explore that creates a loving, bonding, connected enviroment to grow.
As always, all sessions are client directed, Co-created, operate outside of attraction and adhere to the ACSB & SSEAA codes of ethics.
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Taoist Massage
Includes seductive, tantalising, relaxing massage, genital massage, prostate massage, tantric education. Taoist erotic massage is extremely sensual. We will begin by relaxing your breath and body; I start on your back & legs occasionally teasing but mainly relaxing. This session is often used as conscious, repetitive practice alongside erectile, ejaculation, self pleasure or orgasm issue workshops. With couples or individuals. It may also be included with the ‘Bossy Massage or Active Receiving’ as an educational tool to learn to ask forwhat is wanted. With longer, informative sessions you will take away new learnings to use for a lifetime.
Please note this is not something you come to experience but a learning space you are actively participating in... practicing different breath, movement, sounds and self touch. All our sessions must have a learning objective. What would you like to learn about yourself today?
As always, all sessions are client directed, Co-created, operate outside of attraction and adhere to the ACSB & SSEAA codes of ethics.
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Pelvic Floor Release
Why are we not associated with our core? Each person will differ. Is this a physical pain? Emotional? Psychological? Some have completely lost faith in their core, their pelvises, the medical profession. We are conditioned, as women to believe our pelvis, our sex, our pleasure belongs to another. Our beauty is judged on how others view us or how well we perform in or out of the bedroom.
We have no idea about our own anatomy, we learn a bit in school and from trial and error fumbles with partners or ourselves, which may or may not have lead to pleasure; we won’t have learned anything about our proper anatomy, how it works. How female arousal is different than male arousal. Most medical studies are centered around penises and male arousal. There are little to no anatomy books that include the female arousal tissue. Our pelvises are different male and female, our arousal is different, our erectile tissue is similar - but different. This session is about aholistic look at our pelvises, pleasure, pain and releasing old hurts and emotions stored in the core.
We run both group and private sessions most days and hold different group classes and workshops. Would you like to keep up to date on our workshops and courses? Here is our contact form for you to stay in touch and let us know if you are interested in anything specific.
As always, all sessions are client directed, Co-created, operate outside of attraction and adhere to the ACSB & SSEAA codes of ethics.
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What our clients say
My 24 year old daughter went to visit Tracy after experiencing painful intercourse. She had visited her doctor who was not much help so my daughter thought she had to put up with the pain and just live with it. Tracy was kind, compassionate and listened to my daughter. The problem was solved simply, with knowledge and an insight the doctors hadn't even considered. This session was a game changer for my daughter.
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